Monday 5 November 2007

Trip to the Women's Library new Exhibition

We will be going to the Women's Library Tuesday 6th November 2007 to see the exhibiton Sinners, Scroungers, Saints: Lone mothers, past and present. It's an exhibiton that is very interesting and informative about the issues which have effected lone parents historically and the present day. We will be meeting at Stratford Station @ 12pm, come along, join us!!!!


Here we are at the Women's library with Catherine Norman who is the
Audience Development Assistant.
She gave us a guided tour of the exhibiton.

We also managed to film and record the interview on a Sony HD camcorder.

The girls really enjoyed this bit of the workshops and trips. There's no stopping them!!

I must say our girls have the pontential to become the next June sarpong. I am being serious here, because you know, she too was a local girl that achieved fame and recognition as a professional presenter.

Have you a story to tell of Parenting?


We would like to hear from mothers, fathers, grandmothers who can share their stories of motherhood and make a contribution to a online blogging discussion with teen parents.

For more information contact Juliette Mills on 020 7538 4545 or Angie Jasper @ Choice 136 on 020 7511 4314.

On the 30th October 07 we held a session at the Community Links building.


Community Links

On the left is Cindy who kindly gave us her story of being a teen parent.


Below, we have Kim who is a Community links worker who also gave us her story of parenting when she was a young mother. She is holding Sarah's baby.


Below, we have a lady named Emma who will be working with the parents each week, to produce a booklet that will contain services for teen parents in Newham.

Our photography student has also decided to join in with the group session. She has on a grey dress and white top.




Pastures Youth Centre

'Teen Parent Group'

Last week Thursday 4th December we met up with a teen parent group based in Leyton. If you live in that area it is a highly recommended experience. They have a well established group there and all parents are friendly and easy to get on with.











Interview at Theatre Royal

Stratford East


Today we went to the Theatre Royal Stratford East to interview a wonderful lady who is the head of Youth Arts and Education. She recently worked with the Teen Parents group at Pastures Youth Centre. With her help they wrote a moving and thought provoking script based on the life of young man who gave up his daughter to be raised by family. The play is called Waiting for Kion and it was performed in front of 400 people at the theatre and was a huge success.


Jan is looking to take the project a step further and take the play to schools and colleges for the young to see. We have some young mothers in our group who have a keen interest in drama and are enthusiastic to have some involvement in the project with our support. Why don't you blog us if you are a budding actress in the making.


Interview With Raymond Wood


Today Tuesday 12th Feb 08 we interviewed Raymond Wood he is the programme manager for Early Stat Forest Gate. He tells us the background of Early Start. It was a very interesting interview for us to do. He talks about his role within Early Start and the services that it has to offer 'Teen Parents' Thanks Raymond for this interview, well done.


Tuesday 2 October 2007

Have you just had a baby?


CONGRATULATIONS SARAH!!!!!!





As you can imagine mum was exhausted and a touch camera shy..we wish them well


As you can she has just had a beautiful baby girl!!!!!

Today we went to visit one of our girl's from the group. She has had a beautiful baby girl.
Baby was is 6 hours old when we arrived. She is now our current Celebrity!!!

Watch out celeb mags 'HELLO' and 'OK', our pics could give you a run for your money!

As you can see baby was joined for a nap with our Rio......So cute!!


Sarah's back with us at the sessions with baby who is now 4 weeks old. Look how much she has grown!


















Tuesday 18 September 2007

Are you pregnant, do you think you are?

Do you think your pregnant? Do you need some advice where to go? Do you need someone to talk to?

Thursday 13 September 2007

Promote your Service!

Promote your services, you can advertise here by putting information about what you have on offer, whether it's your service or you may have activities or days out, groups, sessions, or general info that would interest young parents.


On the 23rd of October an Italian student named Ana, who is currently studying her degree in Photography, contacted us and will be joining the group for future sessions.
















She is working on a project about 'Teen Parents'. She took some pictures so we have decided to put them on the blog. As you can see she has given Rio some enjoyable photography experience.















Tuesday 11 September 2007

We're making a film, come join us!



Hi all, we are now working on a short film about teen parents. We will be working out the scenes and filming today! Every Tuesday @ 3-5pm we will be at Newtec womens training college. There is also a free crèche provided by Early Start.

Each week we will keep you informed of what we will be doing and keep you informed of our progress if you can't make it.

If you need more information contact Juliette Mills, office@ech.org.uk, 0208 519 1827 or Angie Jasper at Choice 136 on 0207 511 4314 or just blog us.

They will be fun sessions which are too good to be missed, so come along and join in!

Jules

Saturday 25 August 2007

Museum Of Childhood Trip on 28th August 07

Calling all Teen Parents! We are organising another fun filled trip. We will be going to the Museum of Childhood. We will be meeting at Stratford Station Tuesday 28th August 07 for 2.30pm so please be prompt!
Please try and call the office to book your place. Phone 0207 538 4545 ask for Juliette or Judith.

Tuesday 31 July 2007

Trips to The Millers House in Three Mills



Today, we decided to take the children to the Millers House in Three Mills. The children had a wonderful time creating marbling with paints on
paper.













Look!, there is a budding artist in the group demonstrating to mum and others what great talent he has!!!!!!











Today, 7th August 2007 we decided to go back because the children and parents had such a fun time the previous week.







We have taken more pictures of our latest trip to the Millers House.

The children had another organised activity in the garden planting corn seeds and a guided tour of the Old Miller's House. Take a look at the fun they had!






Tuesday 17 July 2007

leighs views

i am a young parent living in newham and i use many of the sevices provided for young mums. i am going to express my thoughts and feelings on what would benifit me as a young mum.

Days out and fun things to do with your children!

Why don't you share with us any activites or fun things that you do with your children. The holidays are upon us now and I am sure that many would appreciate information or ideas to keep the young ones occupied. Days out in Essex.

Tuesday 10 July 2007

stress/depression

Share your thoughts and problems with us. We can either lend you an ear to listen to you, or we can inform you of services in the local area that can meet your needs.

Tuesday 3 July 2007

Work or Not Work?

Is working or bringing up your children the most important to you? Post your views/comments on this topic. Take a look at these articles we have come across.

19 minutes - how long working parents give their children
Working Mothers 'bad for children'

Miscarriage

Please can we have your comments/stories on this topic, so many young girls are having miscarriages we would like to be able to share your experiences on this subject. In the Newham Recorder (Wed June 20th) there was an article about "Baby Deaths Rate Shocker"

Thursday 28 June 2007

Breast Feeding

What is it like to breast feed, has anyone tried it? is it painful? Is it enjoyable?

Tuesday 26 June 2007

Teen Dads

Where are all the teen dads, come and have your say, How are you treated as a young father? How do you feel about being a dad? Are there any questions/answers you have/need to be addressed? Are there any services you need to access?

Thursday 21 June 2007

Potty Training

potty training is something most parents dred but something we all have to do.
if you have already trained a child or are in the process of doing so then please share your experiences with us and let us know of any tips you may have.

Wednesday 20 June 2007

Contraception

contraception

most sexually active women use some form of contraception whether it's to stop them getting pregnant or from receiving an infection.
tell us your experances or concerns about contraception.

Wednesday 13 June 2007

Teething

TEETHING all baby's have to go through it but it can also be a hard time for the parents too all baby's start and finish teething at different times and each child is effected in there own ways too. let us know of your experiences of your children teething and how you dealt with it

Tuesday 12 June 2007

Tantrums

My child is just days away from his second birthday and the terrible twos are firmly here and although I feel I'm coping with the situation sometimes I cant help thinking that I am not doing the right thing. Has anybody got any suggestions or tips?

Leigh 18

Tuesday 5 June 2007

Snapshots from the past




Just take a look at what we have come across. As you can see they are old pictures from the East End dated roughly 1948. The pram appears to be a Silvercross. You can still get them now but are very expensive.
You didn't have light weight buggies in those
days and you had to walk everywhere because
you couldn't get on the bus with it.The attitude
towards prams in those days were very different.









Read some of the quotes/stories to see what mothers thought about the subject.

'You had a job to buy a new pram, I had to get mine from Tumbridge Well's where my husband came from' Joan

'I can recall my mum saying that people considered you a 'Lazy mum' if you had a pram for your baby' Jenny

'I have have never heard that having a pram was for lazy mothers. My mum had one, but I can only ever remember it being wheeled out to collect off cuts of wood from my Grandads factory, to be used as fire wood.' Mary


' My Nan told me, when she had my mum in 1908, you didn't see a doctor, you told a midwife roughly the time you thought a baby might be due. When she got pains, the midwife called round, and if you were hard up as my Nan was they brought round a 1/4 of tea, some sugar and butter. During labout she heard the two midwifes talking and mentioned twins. When Nan asked what was happening, she was told to mind her own business, keep quiet and if she was going to scream stuff the pillow in her mouth. Mum was a breech birth. Nan never had any more children after that it put her off for life! Mum was born in East Ham. I was born in 1944, my Mum was sent to a Maternity Hospital called Suntrap in Epping, although she lived in West Ham. She was treated well but felt half starved. Whenever there was an air raid, they all dived under the beds, but Mum had a sense of humor and said she could see the funny side of it. All I can say I was glad I had my children in the 70's we don't , know we are born.'

Great story, don't you think, what do you think about the care we receive for new and expectant mothers today? We came across an article in the Metro Tuesday, May 29 2007, Babies 'being put in danger' It is basically highlighting the lack of qualified midwifes in the NHS. It's interesting reading and maybe some would say that old fashioned community midwives were probably better qualified even though they had no formal qualification. They had life experience!

While we are on the subject take a look at this article about Jennifer Worth. She was a midwife who worked in the East End in the 50's. The Daily Mail featured an article on her work as a Midwife, Saturday, June 9, 2007. Wow what can one say! Midwifes on bikes? Back then you had your baby at home and the midwife came to assist the birth on her bike! Once the baby arrived, mother and child were sent to a Maternity Hospital for a few weeks until they were fit enough to be sent home.



Monday 14 May 2007

Ragged School Museum Trip

We went to the Ragged School Museum to see what we can learn about childhood in Victorian England.

Many of the poor and destitute children who attended these schools were orphans abandonded by their unwed mothers who could not support their child.

Do you have any memories of childhood/motherhood years ago?

Were you a teen mum/parent?

If so, talk to us teen mums from Newham we would love to hear from you, where ever you live.



Here we are making our way to the Ragged School Museum. It was not a nice day and it rained all the way there and back.





Pennies for Pounds



This is a picture of a chalk board from the trip to the Ragged School Museum. It shows an example of what money was worth in the early 1900's and how chalk boards were once used as a method for teaching.

Tuesday 24 April 2007

Coping Alone!

It isn't easy being a single mum, do people automatically think that your coping fine because you know how to look after yourself, i'm a real single mum with no support from my family or from the child's father. So I know it ain't easy but I say hold your head up and don't feel no way to give yourself that 'RESPECT' for doing it on your own. Being a single parent means you have have to make compromises before I had my daughter I would'nt say I was wild ("yeah right") but having her has really calmed me down. She's now 3yrs and when I first had her I could'nt just go out when I felt like it, iI had a baby-sitter to think about and still have enough money to go out and enjoy myself but it all had to stop. I Could 'nt afford to be splashing out money on drinks and new outfits every week. Bugdeting was one of the hardest things for me but I've over come that now, besides it feels good when you know you've payed for everything in your yard, and that you payed for all your baby clothes and toys on your own.


There's alot of help out there for mums coping with children single handedly I would like to hear about your experiences and feel free to ask for advice


*****sasha*****

Tuesday 17 April 2007

Council Housing and Teen Mums

There is a general belief that young girls have a child in the hope of receiving a council house.
Let us discuss and explore this issue further and get to know the real facts.

Tuesday 27 March 2007

Mothers day

What did you get years ago for mothers day?

Young Mum's Bite Back!



This Blog has been created by a group of young mums as a voice for teen parents, to share advice and experiences, offer information and support on services in Newham (East London, Olympic Borough). This is a chance for you to share your views, opinions, experiences, aspirations and jokes, also to get information and support that may help you in the future.